Women Wedding Suits

I am getting church married soon, Could I wear a wedding dress the same as her with the veil and everything?

Why should I have to wear a suit, she can wear one and it's acceptable so why can't I wear a wedding dress? I am not homosexual nor do I parade in women's clothes.

Public Comments

1. haha id love to see her face - yeh go on do it
2. This would be something to talk over with your spouse, and whether she is comfortable with that. After all, it IS her day as well. Personally I would see nothing wrong with this concept, but take into account what is best for you both. Simply, talk!
3. Yes, by-all-means, wear the wedding dress if you wish. Just don't exspect the bride to wear one! or show up.
4. You could- i think it would cause some fuss between guests though! I guess it is frowned upon because its against tradition but if you want your wedding to be unusual then go for it- itll make the day memorable!!! What does your wife-to-be think ? ? x
5. haha! that would be funny to see!! but it is her day too! so talk it through and see how she feels about it!!
6. sure do it. I'm sure your fiance would just love it at your wedding.
7. Of course if your bride were to wear a suit, it would be a lady's suit: styled differently than a gentleman's formal suit and cut to fit a lady's more shapely figure. If you wish to wear a wedding dress you should get a gentleman's dress, styled for a gentleman and cut to fit your figure. There are such things, of course: kilts, hanfu, thoub and ogal, shervani, doric chiton. I am sure you will look lovely.
8. Hey! Let her wear the tux and you can change places. Are you prettier than she is?
9. if this is a serious question then if your both okay with it go for it just remember wedding dresses are uncomfortable
10. lol...sorry um i didn't mean to laugh.. so wut does ur fiance say about that? But wut kind of church is it? i no im a Christian and if its a christian church they wont let you wear a wedding dress so first check wit ur fiance and the church and if both say go for it then good luck, cause their uncomfortable...lol...:P
11. Well, if you wear women's clothes in your daily life, people would already be expecting it. If you choose to wear a gown just to get a rise out of people, you could pick a better time and place to do that. Your stunt makes a complete mockery of your wedding.
12. If your church allows it then hey be my guest. it wouldnt be something you see very often but thats besides the point but i advise you to talk it over with your spouse she might not be too fond of the idea unless this question is out of pure curiosity. Plus i think you would look more better in a tux ( i have no idea what you look like but in general tuxs have that affect on all men) Plus you wearing a dress would probably take away from her and she probably wont be too fond of that idea. But either way if you wear a dress or tux i wish you and your wife a life time full of happiness. - Crystal
13. I think you're just fooling yourself concerning the parading in women's clothes!
14. Is your name MIck?
15. go on ahead and do it ~ fruitcake
16. That would be an awesome Youtube video!
17. No...This is just not right...You need to be in a tux...I'm sure your bride to be would not be too happy about this either.
18. sure go for it, it's your day too
19. Just isn't appropriate that's why... Just go ahead and put on a tux for her and make her Happy! LOL!!! Silly Puppy!!!
20. providing everyone agrees with your idea you can pretty much do what you want~its not like many people hold the marriage ceremony as a sacred event anymore so why not make it ludicrous and laughable? personally i think its wrong but thats just me!
21. You need to run this by your bride before the ceremony. She may not want to show up for the wedding. This is not a very good way to strike a blow for equality between the sexes.
22. Sure. As long as you clear it with your fiancee. Honestly, I know that the wedding is for both of you, but you need to be communicative with each other about these things and ask one another's opinion. My fiance and I decided on his attire, and I asked him his advice on what I should wear. It doesn't mean she has to pick out your dress for you, but you should run the basic concept by her, just as you would ask her if she would prefer that you wear a tuxedo or a suit or a morning suit, etc. I'm a little confused, though. If you don't parade in women's clothes, than why would you choose this one day to do so? It doesn't really seem your style. You definitely want to look like "yourself" on your wedding day. That's why women are told not to do anything too outlandish with their makeup or wear a dress that doesn't compliment their figures. The last thing you want is for people to say, "Yeah, the dress was really fantastic, but honestly, it looked like the dress was wearing him, rather than him wearing the dress. His personality just didn't shine through....It wasn't the same guy."
23. I don't see why not. What people wear to weddings is not determined by etiquette (which, despite all the fork nonsense, is really about not hurting other people) but tradition. Myself I couldn't care less, as long as you were serious about the marriage itself. But I do have to say that I have helped out at over a hundred gay weddings and not once have I seen a guy in a dress. It seems to be an American idea (and I don't know where they get this from) that gay men are wearing wedding dresses to their weddings.